because I believe in-logy. Cause-logy dictates that the best way to predict the future is to get out of bed in the morning and create it. Coaches call this life 'cause. " Living in the "cause" now means true to the belief that the behavior, actions and responses influence your results / outcomes, these results create your reality and shape your destiny. Living in the "cause" encourages you to take control of your life, shaping it to suit your vision.
The opposite of life "cause" is to live in the "effect", people with "effect" believe their behaviors, actions and responses have little or no impact on their results / results, they believe that life is shaped by factors beyond their control, like fate, luck and circumstances.
So what difference does being "cause" to do? People living in the "cause" feel empowered and in control of life. This leads them to act on getting what they want, they are more dynamic, and they produce more results, making more of a difference. In addition, simply believe they are in control, allowing these people to be less anxious and more relaxed and happy with life.
We will use weight loss, for example, I wake up one morning, look in the mirror and ask who fixed me Chubby's, so I decided to lose weight. We've all been. I join the gym, buy sports gear and even a bottle of fancy water - I'm due to take steps to achieve my goal. I go to the gym three times a week and eat healthy - I'm the cause, always take steps to achieve my goal. Then I spend another three nights a week on the couch with my friends trying to save the world by going on a wine and chocolate diet only say that I am a slow metabolism -. I am indeed
so do lean more towards behavior make you a "cause" or more than one person "effect"? First, there is no clear separation between cause and effect. The two are not mutually exclusive, rather they are as opposite ends of a slide rule; the behavior of a person can be lean toward "cause" or to the "effect".
One way to determine which end you look through is the language you use. Beliefs influence if you are cause or effect and beliefs guide the thoughts; the language is used to express the thought / what you think. Somehow, the words are the clothing of your thoughts are to appear decent in public, so choose wisely (lest you make the wrong kind of fashion statement). Let's see where you stand in terms of cause and effect with this little exercise I created (remember to take this as a fun, unscientific indicator):
Consider the statements below and rate yourself on how likely you are to them say on a scale of 1-5. Note your score for each statement and summarize your scores at the end of the year.
1 = I say never or almost that
2 = I rarely say
3 = I sometimes say that
4 = I often say that
5 = I use statements like this all the time / frequency
01. the way he / she looks at me, I feel loved / good / anger
02. I'm late because of traffic
03. You are so lucky
04. Your comment last night made me happy / upset
05. Tom makes me happy
06. I just not that type of talent
07. Poor John, with today's economy, there is no market-jobs
08. this is not what Ali said, it's how he said it that made me feel motivated
09. I have to make that decision
10. Tania made me take the decision to invest and work wonderfully
11. John loses weight so quickly, he inherited from his father, I would be the same
12. Maria has great genes; she looks half his age each time we meet
Higher scores; 40-60 indicate a person leaning towards 'Effect'
Typically
They may be less qualified, independent and allowed
They could consider situations / events as something out of their control
They could suffer the consequences of situations without seeking to influence the situation to their advantage
lower scores; 12 -36 indicates a person leaning towards Because "
Typically
They tend to be more autonomous, independent and activated
They tend to view situations / events as something they influence
they are likely to be more successful because they actively interact and influence situations to results that are more advantageous for them
they tend to be more dynamic and optimistic, always "find a way" could still be at risk of not knowing when to advance and invest efforts elsewhere
when people attribute liability for the conduct and results out themselves, when people are passive, they are more on the side "effect" of things. Alternatively take responsibility for the behavior and the results you most places 'cause'. You can switch to "cause" by working with a coach to change your beliefs which still requires support, practice and time.
Maybe you want to be unpredictable this year and Cause-logy use to predict your future, how do you do? Ask yourself what you want to achieve this year in every aspect of your life? Keep things real; to buy a Bentley 9-5 on a salary might be difficult unless you run the World Bank from 9 to 5. Define clearly what you want so it is specific, measurable with a deadline. Get a clear idea of what he likes to look and feel to achieve these things.
Now what you could take 5 steps from now to start achieving your goal? Write them down and then go out and make do, once finished, come back and think about more than 5 steps closer to your goal - keep repeating this until you get what you want. You reap what you sow. - Even the laws of Karma say
Good Cause!